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 Prom night has ended. It was great, fantastic and fun. I don’t know if everyones enjoyed it. But somehow, I guess I am. Food was rather disappointing. I enjoy the later part of the night very very much. Thankyou for the surprise, it really touches me. Table mates were shocked to see my eyes filled with tears. Photo session were everywhere. It’s indeed a great memorable ones. Pictures are at Fb, I’ll just upload some here. (:

To that thoughtful juliane out there. Thankyou for the letter and keychain. you’re so sweet. It was sad that I did not manage to receive the letter personally. You’re not going to chalet and i dont think you’ll see this msg. But thankyou. <3 so sweet of you.

Chalet’a in two days time. I srsly can’t wait for it. It’ll probably be the last time where 5B can seat down together as one. *Please enjoy myself, ;D

I came across B’s blog. It’s sad to see her like this. I felt really bad. My selfishness has upset her. I’m sorry. But you must know this, I’m more than anyone else to… You’ll understand, don’t you.  I’ll wait for you to come back with my big present on your hand. <3  ( i really miss the fun time we had tgt just a min ago when i flip through photos of Vietnam )

Apologise for not blogging for the moment.

Anw, went to sharlottle house with xinni during one of the day last week. Finally got my hair dyed after long awaits. Prom is just 2 days away ( V.excited ). Working is tiring. Shopping alone was fun.

Well, it’s late now. I better off to sleep first. Update soon. :*)

I hope there’s no Moday bluez today. ._.  It seems to be a boring holiday.

 

At least I’ll be out later, tmr, mabe Thur and Friday too.

Friday the 13th.

Today is a super boring day! Nothing much had happen. ._.

As One.

I’m tired today, I leave you with this meaningful post.

 

To whom i concern. Kindly read this, this is true. Who walks into your life..
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, ‘How do I know if I married the right person?’I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, ‘It depends. Is that your husband?’ In all seriousness, she answered ‘How do you know?’

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.

Here’s the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) ..

Falling in love with your spouse wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called ‘falling’ in love… Because it’s happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, ‘I was swept off my feet..’ Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It’s a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It’s the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, ‘Did I marry the right person?’ And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else.You could.

And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It’ll NEVER just happen to you.. You can’t ‘find’ LASTING love. You have to ‘make’ it day in and day out. That’s why we have the expression ‘the labor of love.’ Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.. It’s a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..
You can ‘make’ love.

Love in marriage is indeed a ‘decision’.. . Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

‘Destiny determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.’

Credit to : Qq.