As One.

I’m tired today, I leave you with this meaningful post.

 

To whom i concern. Kindly read this, this is true. Who walks into your life..
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, ‘How do I know if I married the right person?’I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, ‘It depends. Is that your husband?’ In all seriousness, she answered ‘How do you know?’

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it’s weighing on your mind.

Here’s the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse/partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit) ..

Falling in love with your spouse wasn’t hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn’t have to DO anything. That’s why it’s called ‘falling’ in love… Because it’s happening TO YOU.

People in love sometimes say, ‘I was swept off my feet..’ Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is easy. It’s a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It’s the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse’s idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, ‘Did I marry the right person?’ And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it. I’m not saying that you couldn’t fall in love with someone else.You could.

And TEMPORARILY you’d feel better. But you’d be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT’S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It’ll NEVER just happen to you.. You can’t ‘find’ LASTING love. You have to ‘make’ it day in and day out. That’s why we have the expression ‘the labor of love.’ Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.. It’s a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable. ..
You can ‘make’ love.

Love in marriage is indeed a ‘decision’.. . Not just a feeling.

Remember this always:

‘Destiny determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.’

Credit to : Qq.

Keep going, Keep knocking.

I hate wordy post. Therefore, I shall post something short.

Today = no good, no good. Today’s weather sucks! Hell, totally spoiled my mood. I was trapped in the building while heading to the busstop. It just rain so sudden. Can you imagine for those people who are half way through walking where these’s no shelter? Tsktsk. I manage to leave the house ystrd. It’s freakin’ bored at home srsly.

Life in Qtss is ending soon. 5 years had passed.

Finally.

Back from long hiatus. O’s is finally coming to an end next Wednesday. Freedom has finally arrived after the hardship that everyone has went through for the past 2 months. All the struggle that we have went through is coming to an end. I am already enjoying myself even before seating for the last paper. Be it good or bad, shall not dwell on it anymore.

I couldn’t resist my temptation to go online shopping. There’s too much things that caught my eye and i’m soooo gona get it. B is going to cambodia ,  bet she’s gona miss me like hell ;D . Home is super bored. I wanna go shopping/movie/ etc.!!!

Meeting joreen next friday, shall enjoy myself ttm. Be back soon. (: Bb.

Long journey.

Away.

I won’t be back unless I’m unable to resist it. Twitter will still be on. Goodnight.

I WANT TO BE RICH!

Daddy’s Birthday on last saturday. Steamboat @ chinatown. I don’t quite like the food & i wasn’t on my mind the whole night. Happy Birthday & I love you. I’ll upload the rest of the pictures in fb.

Holiday was alright. But at least the last few days of holiday brighten up my day. ;D

Prelim is coming to an end soon. I’m expected for my result. I did not study, so you can guess how badly I have done.

I’m tired, goodnight. (: